Question: My best friend is angry at me because I don't talk to her anymore?

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Answer #1:

This is a dangerous situation. My dad's a police officer and he told me a story similar to this, and it was even in the news. This guy was dating this girl in high school, and he became obsessed with her and she lost all her friends because she was always with him. Then one day he took her to the back of her house were their was a creek, then he made blindfolded her and told her to kneel down and he shot her. I suggest you tell this girl what happens, and if she doesn't believe you should tell her mom. It's the only way to get through to her

Answer #2:

He'll only beat you because he loves you.
Now go make him a sammich.

Answer #3:

You're not wrong at all. Don't feel guilty. She isn't a true friend if she gives away your secrets. I'd suggest telling her what a jerk her boyfriend's being. Tell her that's why you don't talk to her anymore. If she gets pissed at you, ditch her. If she tries and talks to her boyfriend about it and change the way he treats you, stay friends with her.

Answer #4:

I don't blame you, her boyfriend is the one who's coming between you and your best friend's friendship and she doesn't realize that, you should have a LONG talk with her, holding back things isn't going to help, if you have a problem, it's best to let her know and if she doesn't respect that then she is not a true best friend. Hope I helped. Good luck!

Answer #5:

I don't think you're wrong and you have no reason to feel guilty. She's not being a loyal friend and you trusted her. Her boyfriend is making the situation worse, though. And if she is causing you further problems, I would just not be friends with her- you (probably) have better friends than her and don't need her. I would tell her that you're not comfortable with the fact that shes with him because you're not comfortable with how he treats you and that its not okay with you what he does. Say that you still want to be friends but explain to her how you feel.

Answer #6:

No you are so not overreacting!!!!!!!
I don't think you should just forget about it all and try and go back to the way things were without talking to her. Call her, ask her when she's free and tell her you really need to talk to her. Go round to her house or invite her round to yours, whenever she's not with the bf. Then tell her that you really don't like it that she shows the guy your texts or tells him your secrets. Tell her that he tells his mates about the stuff she tells him about you. Tell her how he treats you. Then, if she carries on showing him your texts and telling him your secrets, then seriously, she is not worth being friends with. If she starts being a friend again and stops all the stuff you said, then you have nothing to worry about.
Oh, and the guy? Just tell him to back off and leave you alone or you're gonna tell your best friend what a jerk he is. If she doesn't care then just stay away from both of them!

Answer #7:

This man she is dating doesn't sound great. In fact he is 2 faced and the girl need to wake up. Keep talking to her but avoid him at all cost. Even if they break up, don't entrust her with your secrets anymore. Someone said as above said you should inform her mom what's the guy is really like. In fact record his behaviour discreetly if you can and show it to her.





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